Dilema.....

[Ueafa]

I was seeing this girl for a while and everything was perfect. The type of girl you meet, and immediately you fall for them, and it's equal on both halfs. Well, was only seeing her for about 6-7 months, but like I said, it was all perfect. It was like love at first site, never believed in it, but hell, do now. After about 4 months, I told her that I loved her. For once didn't think it was gonna be a big deal, and she just smiled. After that for the reminder of the time we were around/talking with each other, she always said that she had to tell me something, but never could. About a week ago, she went back home to Italy. Her sister and father live out there, and she was here living with her mom for about 9 years. When she was at the airport, she called me up saying that she wanted me to go, so I of course, get to the airport. Run into my mom who was getting off work, and explain the situation to her. So she gets me a couple "fake" tickets (put me on the flight, printed it out, and then cancelled me off it in the computer). Did this so I could get through security, which worked. While sitting with her at the end of the terminal for a while, her boarding row got called, so I walked her up there and told her I was gonna let her go from there. Was I'm walking away, it was like every step, I would look over my shoulder, and she would be starring at me. Happened to the point of me not being able to see her anymore, finally said fuck it, and trucked it back down the terminal to see her again and get one last hug and kiss. As I'm doing that she looks up balling her eyes out and then tells me that she has been trying to tell me something for about 3 months, which she says right then and there. Saying that she loves me too, and she doesn't ever want me to let her go. So should I get my shit together and go see her there and try and get her back, or even move there? Been thinking about selling the bike to get this happen too, just for the extra cash. I'm 21, and she is 21 as well, but it just seems to good to give up on.....
What to do????

[MamaTaz]

First off let me start by saying that I'm quite a bit older than you (okay, alot older!) and let me tell you there is nothing worse than looking back on ANY part of your life & regretting a moment gone or an opportunity missed!!!
If you think that there is even the smallest chance that you could get your "happy ending"...GO FOR IT MAN!!! Trust me, it's sounds really cheesey (until you've lived it!), but you're only young once! The life you're living now will NEVER happen again!! You can't change memories, but you ALWAYS have the power to change the moments that make them!!!!!

:twocents: :twocents: :twocents: :twocents: :twocents: = my TEN cents worth!

[Ueafa]

First off let me start by saying that I'm quite a bit older than you (okay, alot older!) and let me tell you there is nothing worse than looking back on ANY part of your life & regretting a moment gone or an opportunity missed!!!
If you think that there is even the smallest chance that you could get your "happy ending"...GO FOR IT MAN!!! Trust me, it's sounds really cheesey (until you've lived it!), but you're only young once! The life you're living now will NEVER happen again!! You can't memories, but you ALWAYS have the power to change the moments that make them!!!!!

:twocents: :twocents: :twocents: :twocents: :twocents: = my TEN cents worth!

The way I am leaning is that way. Getting some accounts and stocks transfered, I WILL make it happen. Not gonna let her go. NEVER

[BeckyB]

if you can do it and if she's really worth it then go....just realize everything you'll be leaving behind and even though you've known her for about a year make sure you really know her. i agree with mama taz because for the rest of your life you could be wondering 'what if'....but just make sure she's worth leaving everything else here behind.

[MikeM]

Do it man. Thats awesome.

[JR929LOD]

Y not bring her here? She has family here. You go out there you have nothing. It's going to be hard. You fight out there, you have no where to go to cool down. Atleast here it is like neutral ground. You both have fam here.

[Virginia Pee]

OMG THATS THE CUTEST STORY I'VE EVER READ!!!!!

Not all guys are buttwipes..

DO IT !!!! GO SEE HER ... BRING HER BAK TOO!!! that's sooo cuteeee

[Ueafa]

I am gonna see what I can do on bringing her back here. I know we both have family and it would be better, but who knows. Gotta spread your wings sometime and make the best of it..........

[sickboy73jer]

go out there if for no other reason then to not regretting trying to get her back. you got alot of life ahead of you so don't be afraid of going. i've done it a couple of different times chasing girls across the country never worked out but it is always fun to go someplace new. so if you gotta sell your bike well that sucks but a least try

[Ueafa]

Thought more about it. My bike is worth to much to me to sell. It's my better half. As for now, just talking to her, trying to get the right idea of how things still are, which they sound like they're still top notch. Sold some stock and gonna get out there shortly.

[Ueafa]

Well, went out to visit her for the second time since she left. It's hard to see her, and then leave her. Don't know what there is between us still. Every time I go, it's like things are back to normal with us, but at the same time, a little different. Don't know what to do with this decision. Don't really know what decision I am having problems with.. :wtf: Seem lost as fuck. This sucks!

[MikeM]

That sucks man. This is too sad

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

sad shit.. talk to me when u can..

[Ueafa]

This is a picture of her....

http://myspace-313.vo.llnwd.net/00219/31/31/219361313_l.jpg

[MikeM]

she looks good

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

now i see the dilema! i woulnd' twanna leave that either

[Ueafa]

Yeah, and thats not that great of a picture......

[f4igIRlie]

props for expressing urself on the forums like that....do what ur heart tells u...she sounds like a keeper!!!

[BeckyB]

i'm kinda in the same boat right now...wtf...it's not just for a guy, i talk to alot of other people from the area i want to move....i'm giving myself a few years to get myself together plus save money :cool:

[~Brie]

Have you decided if you are going to move or not? Long distance relationships never work, bring her back here....My opinion is I could never move away from everything that I know and love....for one person. I dated a guy for 2 years and when he left for New Mexico for the air force, we broke up. This is my home, for better or for worse. I think if it was meant to be she will come back, sounds like you guys have a strong relationship. Good luck and keep us updated.

[JunTypeR]

I would rather look back at my life and laugh at myself for chasing a dream, that didnt make it. THen look back and wonder what if.


Just go there. If it doesnt work, then atleast you will know. Also how many other people would get to say that they have lived in Italy.

[Ueafa]

I would rather look back at my life and laugh at myself for chasing a dream, that didnt make it. THen look back and wonder what if.


Just go there. If it doesnt work, then atleast you will know. Also how many other people would get to say that they have lived in Italy.

I already know about the whole What If scenerio, thats why I have pursued as much as I have. Moving there, still thinking about it, still need to get some things sorted out here with myself first. But it's always a thought in my head going out there.

[JunTypeR]

Good luck. I dont envy your position at all. truly good luck.

[Ueafa]

No need to envy, gotta do what ya gotta do. I plan on doing so.

[STARKS]

All dating is a dilema, haha, just whoring

[Ueafa]

Well put, agree with you on that........it seems like no matter what, it's always the "what if" scenrio

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

I WOULD RATHER REGRET SOMTHING I DID THEN SOMTHING I DIDNT DO.

[Ueafa]

I WOULD RATHER REGRET SOMTHING I DID THEN SOMTHING I DIDNT DO.

I never knew you were in Arizona...........what part?

I regret a lot of things though, hahaha. Who knows, in time...

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

I never knew you were in Arizona...........what part?

I regret a lot of things though, hahaha. Who knows, in time...


YO I JUST LIVE IN MESA LIKE DOBSON AND BASELINE.

[B Dusted]

Yo.... WHAT THE HELL R U WAITING FOR?????? hold up....wait a min. R U STILL HERE??? GET LOST!!!! GOOOOOO GO get your girl bro.... actually, wait a min. , is she a psycho controlling stalker that f$cks all your friends? nevermind, i seem to get the only ones on the planet! I woulda been out there the same day eating pizza and pasta an shit wit her!!!

[B Dusted]

:offtopic: ummm you got a 98 6 right? and a 99 750 motor? was that motor fule injected? no right? but it bolted right in? did you use your factory computer or the one with the new motor?????

[Ueafa]

:offtopic: ummm you got a 98 6 right? and a 99 750 motor? was that motor fule injected? no right? but it bolted right in? did you use your factory computer or the one with the new motor?????


Got a '98 600, grabbed a '99 750 motor (yes, fuel injected). Bolted right in, used the computer off the 750 motor. SRAD motors will bolt in easily. Otherwise, frame mounts/motor mounts need to be cut and rewelded. If you want check out Gixxer.com log in, check out '96-'99 Gixxers, and look for a post by Skidmark. Swapped in a FI 1000 into his SRAD. Great post, and shows you how to do it.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

yo guy on dobson and baseline, you're down the street from my work, i'm at val vista n baseline, what u ride?

[Ueafa]

Yo.... WHAT THE HELL R U WAITING FOR?????? hold up....wait a min. R U STILL HERE??? GET LOST!!!! GOOOOOO GO get your girl bro.... actually, wait a min. , is she a psycho controlling stalker that f$cks all your friends? nevermind, i seem to get the only ones on the planet! I woulda been out there the same day eating pizza and pasta an shit wit her!!!

Have to much financial shit that just all popped up at once that I am trying to get taken care of. It fuckin' blows!!!

[Ueafa]

yo guy on dobson and baseline, you're down the street from my work, i'm at val vista n baseline, what u ride?

I ride a modified donkey, turned his tail into an extra leg.

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

yo guy on dobson and baseline, you're down the street from my work, i'm at val vista n baseline, what u ride?

I USED TO HAVE AN 03 R6 BUT THAT SHIT GOT STOLEN THEN HAD A 00 GSXR 750 BUT HAD TO LET IT GO CUZ THE TRANNY WAS ALL FUCKED UP NOW I THINK IM GUNNA GET AN OLDER HONDA RR OR SOME SHIT. SO FOR NOW I JUST CRUISE MY BAGGED 04 CHEVY SILVERADO.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

I ride a modified donkey, turned his tail into an extra leg.
and that's the leg you use to ram in your gay man ass? :sheep:

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

I USED TO HAVE AN 03 R6 BUT THAT SHIT GOT STOLEN THEN HAD A 00 GSXR 750 BUT HAD TO LET IT GO CUZ THE TRANNY WAS ALL FUCKED UP NOW I THINK IM GUNNA GET AN OLDER HONDA RR OR SOME SHIT. SO FOR NOW I JUST CRUISE MY BAGGED 04 CHEVY SILVERADO.
whoa, this works out well.. i have a 929 4 sale for cheap... clean titled, 3500... good shape, lemme know! there is a thread in here about it, look at buy n sell section

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

whoa, this works out well.. i have a 929 4 sale for cheap... clean titled, 3500... good shape, lemme know! there is a thread in here about it, look at buy n sell section

YA IM GUNA CHECK IT CUZ THATS ABOUT PERFECT.

DID YOU USED TO HANG OUT ON SCOTTSDALE ROAD RIGHT THERE AT THAT OLD TEXACO BY EZ RIDERS?

[Ueafa]

and that's the leg you use to ram in your gay man ass? :sheep:

Yeah, but it's not working right......I need to redo the zipties, cause it gets caught, can't get the full leverage. Hey, your whole bike is ziptied together, maybe you could swing by and take a look. Might even let you take it for a spin.....WOOOOHOOOOOO

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

YA IM GUNA CHECK IT CUZ THATS ABOUT PERFECT.

DID YOU USED TO HANG OUT ON SCOTTSDALE ROAD RIGHT THERE AT THAT OLD TEXACO BY EZ RIDERS?


well let me know, a buddy of mine is interested in it too.. i just want it gone quick.. nah, i actually ride... i don't sit on mill or old town like the rest of the homo's..


keep your donkey to yourself... my bike has 0 zip ties thank you very much.. my old f4i on the other hand, had more than you could ever imagine

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

well let me know, a buddy of mine is interested in it too.. i just want it gone quick.. nah, i actually ride... i don't sit on mill or old town like the rest of the homo's..



WORD.

GO AHEAD AND SELL THAT SHIT TO YOUR BUDDY CUZ I GOT LIKE 2 OTHER PROJECTS I GOTA WORK ON AND SPEND A LIL CASH FOR. PLUS THE HOLIDAYS AND ALL THAT SHIT. I WONT BE BUYING A BIKE TILL ATLEAST THE MIDDLE OF JANUARY.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

alright well get a hold of me then, i have a auction license

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

alright well get a hold of me then, i have a auction license


FUCKIN A!!

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

yeah, i'm pretty handy... hey, u have trucks, do you need denali rims? brand new, 8 miles on the tires, want them gone now!!! they fit chevy n gmc 1500 trucks

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

yeah, i'm pretty handy... hey, u have trucks, do you need denali rims? brand new, 8 miles on the tires, want them gone now!!! they fit chevy n gmc 1500 trucks


I THINK YOU MIGHT BE STALKING ME CUZ I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR SOME DENALI RIMS FOR LIKE 8 MONTHES. HOW MUCH CUZ I JUST NEED THE RIMS FOR MY MAZDA?

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

oh fuck yeah! call me up 4**-228-9331

[Ueafa]

Those homo's that sit off Mill will more than likely outride you in any area. I know of 6 especially that will. They are good guys, if you find the right ones, but like everywhere you go, you run across some assholes too.
By the way.............you hijacked my thread. haha

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

see that's the thing, you've never seen me ride, so i highly doubt your sticking up for your ass pirate friends is legitimate...

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

i just asked about scottsdale rd cuz i used to bust some bigass 3 wheels in the middle of the street in my caprice wagon thats all. i dont habg out there but i have done some good burn outs along that lil strip where those dudes used to hang out at.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

haha u're askin for trouble with po po..

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

get on aol and lets discuss things

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

haha u're askin for trouble with po po..



ya i have got a few tickets out there. i did get one for 3 wheeling in the middle of the street going in both north and south bound lanes. but its ok those are awards. i hang them on my wall.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

get on aol homo!

[ILOVESTRIPPERS]

get on aol homo!


yo im on all ready. my aol is always on.

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

well IM me, i don't see yours.... crtchrktrcr

[CHAIN_REACTION1]

Dude, if she loves you & you love her then; you'll be together someday soon.
Just don't sell the bike MAN!!!!!




On the other hand....................Sometimes you gotta give up things you have, to get what you want in life.............................Good luck & my thoughts & prayers are with you...




www.cr-riders.com

[CrTcHRkTRcR]

ouch, bad time to bring up his bike

[Ueafa]

Dude, if she loves you & you love her then; you'll be together someday soon.
Just don't sell the bike MAN!!!!!




On the other hand....................Sometimes you gotta give up things you have, to get what you want in life.............................Good luck & my thoughts & prayers are with you...




www.cr-riders.com
















Well lets see here.........can't really sell the bike. Because I totaled it last Thursday (check out open discussion and then look for thread "PICTURES OF WRECK"). So right now, I am stuck in this little hole called "Dane's life sucks at the moment" and waiting to get out.

[Sean24]

dane......dane cook?

[Ueafa]

dane......dane cook?

Dane as in Dane Cook, but not thee Dane Cook.

[Little D]

This is a picture of her....

http://myspace-313.vo.llnwd.net/00219/31/31/219361313_l.jpg


dude you let that go how and why could you do that you better go get her back :yes: :yes:

[Ueafa]

dude you let that go how and why could you do that you better go get her back :yes: :yes:


Cause I have so much shit that has been going on for so long now, that I am trying to get taken care of, but shit seems to constantly be getting in the way no matter. Even if I don't do anything to cause any of it. I plan on getting her back sometime, but have also met two incredible people that I have seen on and off for a while. But still talk to her every 3-4 times a week.

[Ueafa]

This should be rather interesting.... The girl who I fell for and fell in love with that moved to Italy is coming back February 21st. Only thing is, she wont tell me if she is only here for a short visit or moving back. Makes things hard, especially with the girl that I am seeing know as well....... mass confusion... :Eeek: :Eeek: :Eeek: :Eeek:

[forcefedfreak]

Personally, I think you're a prick.


WTF is this shit man, telling some broad you love her, and then you don't even have the sack to take on a huge challenge to be with her? Can't even sell your bike to do it? WTF is your bike man? It's a hunk of fucking metal. and there are 593492375443 bikes out there just like it. And now you have the heart to see someone else, and this other chick is coming back and you don't know what to do? Obviously she couldn't mean as much to you as you say.

It pisses me off, because you are whining over your dilemma, when at least you have a fucking choice to make. Me? I meet just some new stupid scumbag bitch everyday that isn't even worth fucking knowing, and I know i'm not alone. Wake the fuck up, realize an opportunity when it is put in front of your face, and don't let it slip through the fucking cracks. If you fuck this up, I'll drive to Arizon and whoop your ass.

best of luck, you dumb fucker.

[-DEBO-]

Personally, I think you're a prick.


WTF is this shit man, telling some broad you love her, and then you don't even have the sack to take on a huge challenge to be with her? Can't even sell your bike to do it? WTF is your bike man? It's a hunk of fucking metal. and there are 593492375443 bikes out there just like it. And now you have the heart to see someone else, and this other chick is coming back and you don't know what to do? Obviously she couldn't mean as much to you as you say.

It pisses me off, because you are whining over your dilemma, when at least you have a fucking choice to make. Me? I meet just some new stupid scumbag bitch everyday that isn't even worth fucking knowing, and I know i'm not alone. Wake the fuck up, realize an opportunity when it is put in front of your face, and don't let it slip through the fucking cracks. If you fuck this up, I'll drive to Arizon and whoop your ass.

best of luck, you dumb fucker.




haha :drunkchee

[Ueafa]

Personally, I think you're a prick.


WTF is this shit man, telling some broad you love her, and then you don't even have the sack to take on a huge challenge to be with her? Can't even sell your bike to do it? WTF is your bike man? It's a hunk of fucking metal. and there are 593492375443 bikes out there just like it. And now you have the heart to see someone else, and this other chick is coming back and you don't know what to do? Obviously she couldn't mean as much to you as you say.

It pisses me off, because you are whining over your dilemma, when at least you have a fucking choice to make. Me? I meet just some new stupid scumbag bitch everyday that isn't even worth fucking knowing, and I know i'm not alone. Wake the fuck up, realize an opportunity when it is put in front of your face, and don't let it slip through the fucking cracks. If you fuck this up, I'll drive to Arizon and whoop your ass.

best of luck, you dumb fucker.


Everything works out in the end, been with her since she moved back in February so on that note..... :finger:
Naw, I understand where you were coming from, so it's all good.