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LiL SiS
10-14-2004, 08:51 PM
What do you think. I have mixed opinions on this one. Let me know where you stand on this.

BeckyB
10-14-2004, 10:12 PM
me personally i have never been in that kind of situation...but i do have a guy i've been friends with for the past month or so and i really want to be more to a certain extent. sorry i don't know how much sense that made :confused:

ClaySPST
10-14-2004, 10:13 PM
Kathy i will have to go for NO.

*TrIsHeL*
10-14-2004, 10:14 PM
i definitely think friends make great boyfriends!! :D

TongWoo
10-14-2004, 10:15 PM
What do you think. I have mixed opinions on this one. Let me know where you stand on this.
Depends on the person. If noone gets jealous it can be waay fun. Buh Buh Buh BOOTY CALL!!!!!!! :D

ClaySPST
10-14-2004, 10:16 PM
Depends on the person. If noone gets jealous it can be waay fun. Buh Buh Buh BOOTY CALL!!!!!!! :D


MOST DEF. never a lover but i will pound the hell out of it. :D

LiL SiS
10-14-2004, 10:18 PM
i definitely think friends make great boyfriends!! :D
Me tooo.....look Trishel we can agree on something ;) :D

JenGTZ
10-14-2004, 10:55 PM
Depends on the person. If noone gets jealous it can be waay fun. Buh Buh Buh BOOTY CALL!!!!!!! :D

I agree with this. It depends on the person and I think the situation.

LadyCrysis
10-14-2004, 11:03 PM
never been in this situation, but i would hate to lose a friend just because we became lovers and then broke up

FIZZ
10-14-2004, 11:09 PM
Hey, whatever, as long as the ass is good and both people are cool with it then why not? I'd hit it !!!

Bad_PBK
10-14-2004, 11:40 PM
Well I don't know how much what I can say will help but I had A friend once thatI ended up date and stuff. and well we broke up. and we dont talk now but I have to say I am glad we did it because if we hadn't then i dont know how my life would be going now. I just think that if you like someone that you should take a chance at it. He or she could be the one your looking for.

gixxer_mark
10-15-2004, 12:18 AM
i think friends is where you find some of you're best relationships... but can a friend be strickly a lover... NO NEVER... they can be fuck buddies but not lovers, it's got to be a rebound, drunk or loneliness thing... there's a big difference between fuck buddies and lovers...

LadyCrysis
10-15-2004, 04:11 AM
Cant be neither ever, cause honestly I do the damn thing so good in that thing called the bedroom that what a girl thought was a night stand turns into a calling Cbo everyday type deal. Gotta be careful with girls cause they say its all good to be fuck buddies but they fall too fast. Thats why I dont mess with the ladies anymore. I just chill and beat off in the shower everyday and it keeps me single and out of trouble.

i knew our shower cutained was stained from something......clean that shit up damn!

GonZilla
10-15-2004, 08:31 AM
Just bang em all and sort it out later... :D

f4igIRlie
10-15-2004, 10:24 AM
If you were really good friends 1st! :)

*TrIsHeL*
10-15-2004, 07:51 PM
Me tooo.....look Trishel we can agree on something ;) :D
thats a good thing... lol... i think that you should be good friends with them first then you know how they are and if you really would wanna be with them...and you probably feel alot more comfortable around them than others... and they probably wont hurt u or take advantage of you either..so basically i think friends make GREAT lovers!! :p :D

BIG-D
10-15-2004, 07:59 PM
thats a good thing... lol... i think that you should be good friends with them first then you know how they are and if you really would wanna be with them...and you probably feel alot more comfortable around them than others... and they probably wont hurt u or take advantage of you either..so basically i think friends make GREAT lovers!! :p :D


Thats pretty much the way I feel. This was a hard poll for me to answer but thats pretty much it right there

D-Unit dem xpt
10-16-2004, 02:32 AM
i knew our shower cutained was stained from something......clean that shit up damn!


LOL............

nakedinosaur
10-16-2004, 03:27 AM
I agree with the it all depends theory but it more depends on the personality of the people involved. Cause im a very laid back person and me and one of my good chick friends had this one time only heat of the moment type thing and afterwards went right back to being the friends we where b4 it happened, but then another friend of mine and i had this drunken one time only thing and didnt even make it all the way and now she wont talk to me cause its weired. so if you get two laid back peeps in the sack its all gravy but if one of them is a little uptight prepare for things to get real awkward real quick.


btw i knew both girls very well for over a year before said "events"

S SHIPE
10-16-2004, 10:31 AM
Cant be neither ever, cause honestly I do the damn thing so good in that thing called the bedroom that what a girl thought was a night stand turns into a calling Cbo everyday type deal. Gotta be careful with girls cause they say its all good to be fuck buddies but they fall too fast. Thats why I dont mess with the ladies anymore. I just chill and beat off in the shower everyday and it keeps me single and out of trouble.
hahahalol...cbo u keep it real dont u...thats funny but the truth

*eMiWeE*
10-17-2004, 08:54 PM
never been in this situation, but i would hate to lose a friend just because we became lovers and then broke up

that is really true...
but if u were good enough friends then you would prolly be able to overcome that...

I consider my boyfriend as one of my best friends if that says n e thing

ClaySPST
10-17-2004, 08:56 PM
YOUR NOT A FRIEND UNLESS I SLEPT WITH YOU. :p :rolleyes:

02 avi
10-18-2004, 02:04 AM
Cant be neither ever, cause honestly I do the damn thing so good in that thing called the bedroom that what a girl thought was a night stand turns into a calling Cbo everyday type deal. Gotta be careful with girls cause they say its all good to be fuck buddies but they fall too fast. Thats why I dont mess with the ladies anymore. I just chill and beat off in the shower everyday and it keeps me single and out of trouble.
Bo Randys gonna get ur ass.

LiL_Beara
10-18-2004, 04:52 AM
i think that friends do make better lovers because they already know everythin about you before........... but than again it can fuck you over in the end if things dont end up workin out cuase you lose a friend and its hard to be friends the same after that if you ever do become friends after that ~

Im goin tho somethin like that right now me and joe have been friends for a while and we started to fall for each other and now its like we dont know what to do.......still be friends and not start somethin not to lose each other.........or get together and risk it all..........its a hard place to be in.........I HATE IT :confused:

nakedinosaur
10-18-2004, 05:06 PM
i think that friends do make better lovers because they already know everythin about you before........... but than again it can fuck you over in the end if things dont end up workin out cuase you lose a friend and its hard to be friends the same after that if you ever do become friends after that ~

Im goin tho somethin like that right now me and joe have been friends for a while and we started to fall for each other and now its like we dont know what to do.......still be friends and not start somethin not to lose each other.........or get together and risk it all..........its a hard place to be in.........I HATE IT :confused:

thats a shitty spot to be in

Celeste
11-03-2004, 05:19 PM
I think friends make good lovers, but it does depends on the situation. Every relationship starts somewhere and when it starts with a friendship you each are that much further along in your relationship...

TongWoo
11-03-2004, 05:22 PM
YOUR NOT A FRIEND UNLESS I SLEPT WITH YOU. :p :rolleyes:
Hey Clay,....We're not friends...So don't get any ideas... :D

120clown
11-03-2004, 05:42 PM
Hey Clay,....We're not friends...So don't get any ideas... :D


lmao rotflmao ha ha ha i needed that thanks woo :D

KC Tony
08-13-2005, 09:27 PM
I have to say the best actual "relationships" i have had have been with girls i was friends with first. As far as if you can be cool afterwords it just depends on the situation of the breakup and the person.