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didn't want to make a thread but calm down I need advice..
yes that's nothing new but this will help me down the road!
listen ever since I was younger they say I have an problem interpting "social cues" and have an below average "social ability".
well I guess I don't know how you meet girls I mean do you just walk up to them or what? like there is this girl from my school Savanha and now during the summer she works as this gas station I go to all the time and last few times I've seen her I've been like "so do you work here all the time" and she just laughed.. you know talk here, talk there.. etc etc and then she swiped my credit card for me and we just laughed a bit.
anyway so she wasn't there tonight but she is going to be there tommorow from 8:00am to 2:00pm.. well I know you may say its only cause she looks good but she seems like a nice person (next week shes going to some church camp for a week) and I'd like to get to know her.. be her friend at least etc.
thats honestly all I want for now is just to get some more friends and I figured you all would be the best place to go to for advice. honestly it gets lonely and so lonely I sometimes take a drive friday nights late night just to get a slurpee when in my mind I am thinking I'm on my way to a "party" when I'm really not then I drive home sad and shit. I don't want it to be that way but it is.
if you can give me some advice I'd appreciate it.. I am depressed incase ur wondering but I am taking zoloft. either way I still want to have fucking friends.. argh it makes me mad why this has to be so difficult for me. I have maybe two friends in real life and a brother I don't get along with who doesn't even live here.
by the way like this weekend my parents are in florida (ft lauderale) looking a new yacht they want to get some 75 foot thing and did I want to go.. no maybe I could have a party. well when it all comes down to is me and my dogs.. being alone sucks. if you don't want to give helpful advice please don't reply and no i don't wanna be "gangster" , "pimp" , "playa" or anything.. I am nice and respectable type of guy and I want to stay that way.. just want to make some friends. I'm also not going to change who I am just possibily the way I go about it all.
Darkmind
06-25-2004, 08:28 PM
Dude you and me got some of the same problems. Stop trying so hard and just go with the flow, due what you want when you want while you can and let things come when they do. my two cents
BeckyB
06-25-2004, 08:30 PM
you're at a tough time in your teenage years. if you want to make some friends, why not join a club or something i know it's summer time, but when school starts we always had clubs at my school and they were pretty fun...that's a good way to make friends, or with this girl ask her if she wants to go hang out sometime. do you like sports at all? if you do try out for a team and make friends with your team mates. get a job at a local place where people your age goes and talk to them, see what they like, and if you guys have something in common go hang out with them.
well as for school clubs.. it's summer like you said but but also I go to an alternative school because of my grades.
i am really trying to focus on this girl savanaha btw..
like you said ask her if she wants to hangout.
it may sound stupid but how? i am going to try and head up there tommorow around 9am or 10am.. its not a busy time so I may be able to get a few words in or something. once I get there what should I do?
..IE- get my stuff then talk to her (then what) or talk to her and then get my stuff.. etc man I am clueless.
BeckyB
06-25-2004, 08:38 PM
well as for school clubs.. it's summer like you said but but also I go to an alternative school because of my grades.
i am really trying to focus on this girl savanaha btw..
like you said ask her if she wants to hangout.
it may sound stupid but how? i am going to try and head up there tommorow around 9am or 10am.. its not a busy time so I may be able to get a few words in or something. once I get there what should I do?
..IE- get my stuff then talk to her (then what) or talk to her and then get my stuff.. etc man I am clueless.
go there tonight, find something new in the store...then tomorrow ask her if she's tried it or heard anything about it and get it.
so when I get in the store tommorow walk up to her at the cashier.. and then be like hey whats up? you tried the new livewire yet?
then if she says yes or no.. blah blah I say I guess I'll give it a try.. (if I get your number?? or no? lol)
when do I talk to her about hanging out
RedRebel
06-26-2004, 02:31 AM
Dude you and me got some of the same problems. Stop trying so hard and just go with the flow, due what you want when you want while you can and let things come when they do. my two cents
I third that dude. I used to be just like you....be then I started going with the flow and its getting better.
Darkmind
06-26-2004, 09:48 AM
Just take it as it comes.
had a great night last night..
this girl sammie.. been friends with her for a few years.
well we talked on the phone for over three hours..
got pretty sexual I must admit but it was all good.
I am hoping to get together with her on sunday..
I offered to take her out to a movie.
If I end up going I can drive so its alot easier than it was before..
So now its all going good and parents aren't home.
I also am driving the expedation so I gotta put another layer of Meguiar's NXT Tech Wax then their booster, SprayWax.. Be clean as hell. Smoking!
Darkmind
06-26-2004, 10:07 AM
Put it in the pooper. :D
LiL SiS
06-26-2004, 10:10 AM
Ok glad things went good for you but just a little too much info. You could have left out a lot of the details but I'm happy for you all the same...I think you should edit you post and leave a few lines out :eek: :eek:
BeckyB
06-26-2004, 10:18 AM
Ok glad things went good for you but just a little too much info. You could have left out a lot of the details but I'm happy for you all the same...I think you should edit you post and leave a few lines out :eek: :eek:
ahahha, that's what i was thinking :eek:
sorry :(
i edited it though and should be good now.
i added more pictures too.
Darkmind
06-26-2004, 10:21 AM
had a great night last night..
this girl sammie.. been friends with her for a few years.
well we talked on the phone for over three hours..
got pretty sexual I must admit but it was all good.
I am hoping to get together with her on sunday..
I offered to take her out to a movie.
If I end up going I can drive so its alot easier than it was before..
So now its all going good and parents aren't home.
I also am driving the expedation so I gotta put another layer of Meguiar's NXT Tech Wax then their booster, SprayWax.. Be clean as hell. Smoking!
OOOOO damn watch out for them braces :eek: other than that she looks good i'd do her. :D
LiL SiS
06-26-2004, 10:27 AM
sorry :(
i edited it though and should be good now.
i added more pictures too.
much better honey...now i don't want to choke you while i read it :D
How it stands we talked earlier this day around 10am but as I think I mentioned she was going to a baby shower for her cousin's wife or something.
When I read the convo we had I just get all nervous.. can't be that normal. argh.
RPMx12: hey sleepy head sleep late??
cxxxxxxxx: lol no i woke up at 9:00
RPMx12: damn i just woke up i wanted to catch ya before u leave
RPMx12: on Sunday do u think u'd like to go see a movie?
cxxxxxxx: sure if i aint doing sutmhing iwtht he family!
RPMx12: cool cool
RPMx12: well i guess i'll go eat and a watch a movie. nother long boring day ahead lol
cxxxxxxxx: ehhe
RPMx12: hope you have a good time at the shower today
chxxxyfe: imma sorry
RPMx12: its fine. last night was the one of the best nights of my life.. i will just think back to it.
cxxxx: thanks..
RPMx12: no problem
cxxxxxx: aww
RPMx12: hopefully one day soon i will actually get to see u again cause i really do miss you alot :-(
cxxxxx: i miss you too!
RPMx12: :-)
cxxxyfe: :-P
RPMx12: well angel never fall off your cloud and everything will be great
cxxxxxx: hehe
cxxxxxx: thank you
RPMx12: no problem i am gonna go eat but on sunday u want me to call u
cxxxxxx: yeah call my cell phone
I made her this but haven't shown her yet. What do you think?
Be honest.
http://www.freestyledesign.us/Sammie.jpg
This is some of the shit going on last night..
She kept having me adjust her boob size in photos for fun. LOL
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http://www.freestyledesign.us/blahblah.jpg
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http://www.freestyledesign.us/doubleZshizzle.jpg
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http://www.freestyledesign.us/maybe-we-can-kiss.jpg
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Albgixxer
06-30-2004, 10:33 PM
What did I miss :confused:
Oh well, good job dude!
gixxer_mark
06-30-2004, 11:08 PM
Put it in the pooper. :D
yeh... what he said!
sidewayz
07-01-2004, 01:08 AM
Ok so I personaly think writing poems this soon is a little fast...you may just scare her off..... I wrote 1 poem ever for my wife....it was for our wedding.... Despite what some hopeless romantic thinks, girls dont nessaserly like poems about themselves, in fact sometimes it just opens the door for laughter and critisism at your expense....thats just my opinion so dont take it personal, just ponder it
Droptop
07-01-2004, 06:00 AM
Rpm quit trying so hard you are begging to look to desperate....
You can not make someone be with you!!!
Just act normal!!! they will come sooner or later!!!!
Till then watch some porn and if you have to use your hand!!!!!
While your at hook up a brother with some passwords!!!
JenGTZ
07-01-2004, 09:37 AM
Ok so I personaly think writing poems this soon is a little fast...you may just scare her off..... I wrote 1 poem ever for my wife....it was for our wedding.... Despite what some hopeless romantic thinks, girls dont nessaserly like poems about themselves, in fact sometimes it just opens the door for laughter and critisism at your expense....thats just my opinion so dont that it personal just ponder it
I completely agree with this... That would definately scare me away. From your conversation that you posted it just seems so fake. Like you are trying way too hard to make a relationship out of something that just may be a friendship. If you really want a relationship have a friendship first. Don't just meet someone then try to take it to the next level...you're only 16! You have time.....
Rpm quit trying so hard you are begging to look to desperate....
beginning to look desperate? that kid wrote the book on desperate
sclevela
07-01-2004, 03:49 PM
beginning to look desperate? that kid wrote the book on desperate
bwahahahahahahahahaha
hell.. I'm suprised he hasn't wrote a poem for me a sclevela yet
03silvers
07-01-2004, 03:56 PM
im sure its on the way
sclevela
07-01-2004, 03:58 PM
hell.. I'm suprised he hasn't wrote a poem for me a sclevela yet
rpms poem to u
violets are blue roses are red
keep fukkin with me nags and i swear to god ill make my parents drive me to redline jimmys house and ill beg him to do a wheelie for me then ill get a gift certificate for a random girl from wal mart and when she ignores me after that ill get my parents to buy me a hit man cuz if they dont ill tell them im depressed and ull be dead!
Cdawg02
07-01-2004, 07:13 PM
ugh...BE YOURSELF...don't try to be someone ur not cuz chics pick up on that unless they are totally stupid...
sclevela
07-01-2004, 08:50 PM
hahahahahaha
there it is! ;)
Wheelie Boy
07-01-2004, 10:18 PM
rpms poem to u
violets are blue roses are red
keep fukkin with me nags and i swear to god ill make my parents drive me to redline jimmys house and ill beg him to do a wheelie for me then ill get a gift certificate for a random girl from wal mart and when she ignores me after that ill get my parents to buy me a hit man cuz if they dont ill tell them im depressed and ull be dead!
the word OWNED comes to mind after that poem
hahaha damn guys give the kid a break...well he did write a poem :confused: oh no you didnt! nvm guys keep goin at it hahaha lol
on a serious note, rpm you gotta stop tryin so damn hard, man you look sooooo desperate you remind me of a kid in my class who just starts talkin to ANY girl and as soon as they smile hes hooked on em and gets annoyin...like i said be yourself, err wait, quit tryin so damn hard, dont ever write another poem!!! ya heard....
Risingevil
07-20-2004, 01:25 PM
Here is a really easy way to handle this shit, Rpm your 16 or some shit like that? Take your ass to the damn mall and get yourself a job at a clothing store. Your the perfect age to just sit back and real in the little hotties at the mall. Now quit your damn bitching about this shit before I have to write you a novel on pimping. Nags, Cbo you guys up to illistrate this shit for me because I can tell I'm gonna have to write it.
Jeskimo2
08-24-2004, 08:16 PM
sorry :(
i edited it though and should be good now.
i added more pictures too.
dammit now i wanna know what happened :p
glad u had a fun night, like everyone has said, just go w/ the flow...if u kinda act like you're interested but don't REALLY care about the outcome w/ girls, that makes THEM interested and want to work harder.
dammit now i wanna know what happened :p
glad u had a fun night, like everyone has said, just go w/ the flow...if u kinda act like you're interested but don't REALLY care about the outcome w/ girls, that makes THEM interested and want to work harder.
girls and there fucking games.
LiL SiS
08-25-2004, 09:19 PM
girls and there fucking games.
Lets not talk about the games yall dudes be playing
Lets not talk about the games yall dudes be playing
I play no games so dont include me in that
dHERZ
10-02-2005, 09:29 PM
is it fucked up that i find this thread amusing?
wtbz400
10-02-2005, 10:01 PM
hahaha, i find this thread amusing..but whats up with the n/a for number of posts and shit on rpms and sclevela's username?.. hmm dude. work at a gas station... if you pump gas, youll become very outgoing. ive learned that with myself..even though i wasnt that shy..but its works..works soo good,youll end up asking chicks to show a titty for a tip!
Sean24
10-03-2005, 03:51 AM
how about that chick looks like a 15 year old version of Becky....anyone else see the resemblence on that one?!?!
how about this threads over a year old, somebodies a little to bored