Soooo....

[StChick1]

I have this boyfriend...we've dated on and off for 7 years. Well he's not the nicest guy in the world sometimes and i think he might be cheating on me. So why am i still with him? Because 90% of the guys around my age don't want a serious relationship, they want what i won't give up outside of a relationship. Why is it sooo hard to find a guy who actually wants a long term relationship. I like bikes, I like going out, I even like staying in and watching movies, i'm a very passive person and i'm not high maintainance...so why do i end up coming back to him everytime? :Hum:

[bkrgurl]

7 years is a long time girl! You get attached and used to having him around. Maybe you get scared to let him go because you feel you won't find someone else. Well, if he is cheating on you don't stick around cause you're better than that. Some times no matter how bad you want something to work and how hard you are willing to try somethings just are not ment to be. Everything happens for a reason so if you get rid of him it will be hard at first but way better in the long run. You will find a nice guy one day that likes you for you and would never take you for granted. Hope this helps.

[LadyCrysis]

"no matter how i walk away you always finds a way to make me stay-this is crazy" ~Lauren Hill

[Gixxergurl600]

I have this boyfriend...we've dated on and off for 7 years. Well he's not the nicest guy in the world sometimes and i think he might be cheating on me. So why am i still with him? Because 90% of the guys around my age don't want a serious relationship, they want what i won't give up outside of a relationship. Why is it sooo hard to find a guy who actually wants a long term relationship. I like bikes, I like going out, I even like staying in and watching movies, i'm a very passive person and i'm not high maintainance...so why do i end up coming back to him everytime? :Hum:

Hey gurl, I just got out a 2 year relationship and I have always heard that he has been cheating on me. He always stayed out until 5am, which in my opinion if he would have wanted to be serious with me then he would have wanted to be around me, it was always so hard to get him to stay home with me one night. I just kept putting up with it, thinking that things will get better but actually it got worse. If you are not happy in a relationship you should talk to him about it.. You will find someone just right for you, they always come when you least expect it.. Good luck with everything.. :)

[Mogwai]

Stchick.....bkrgurl.....have you guys met yet? If not I would like to ntroduce you. We put bkrgurl in a shopping cart over the weekend, pushed it with her car at probly around 20 mph and ran her into a snow bank at meijer.....Stchick, you simply need to hang out with us more, we're fun and we'll distract your mind from the boy drama, hell bring the boy if you want, we'll throw him into a snow bank too. Keep your head up, it took me a long time of being single to find what I have, I think that's just how it works, you have to be available to find someone who will treat you right.

[bkrgurl]

No, we haven't met yet but I would like to. Aren't you both going to Flordia? If so I am sure we will hangout down there and have lots of crazy ass fun I hope. We will help get your mind off your man, and maybe find you a hottie down there =) I don't know. Me and Matt are leaving the weekend before to stay with his Grandparents and ride bikes for a while but will leave there that Friday morning to meet up with you all. Well, I got to go to work now talk to you all later.

[-Nasty-]

We will help get your mind off your man, and maybe find you a hottie down there =)


skkkkirrrrrrrrrrrttttttttttttt, u are put on hottie searching restrictions young lady, she dont need ur help.


haha for real it will be ight kel ull be fine i dont know ryan that well so im not gona talk shit bout him just keep ya head up there will be light after the dark

[StChick1]

yeah...i'm workin on it. lol tryin to keep my head up, just two more weeks till i'm in sunny florida hangin out with lots of my friends....two more weeks...

[BeckyB]

i probaly think that the reason you stay with this guy is maybe cause you want to be with someone, and you guys have been together for awhile.
i know exactly what you mean about finding a guy that wants the same things you want....it's hard to find someone like that, but he's out there. my ex had cheated on me, but i never really assumed that he was. honestly if he treats you like crap and you do really and truely believe he's cheating on you, this is where you need your girlfriends the most. go out with them, or pick up a new hobby, just get yourself away from this guy if he's that bad, i'm sure if you get away from him, you'll feel so much better about yourself....i did. good luck to you with everything.

[Judge]

St..you are too damned cute and too much of a sweetheart to put up with that .....run away....go get someone who knows how to treat you.....

[LEASNIT]

St..you are too damned cute and too much of a sweetheart to put up with that .....run away....go get someone who knows how to treat you.....

Or just do judge.. he's quite orniary latley.... :asshole: lol...

[Judge]

Or just do judge.. he's quite orniary latley.... :asshole: lol...

true....but thats life :flipoff: