Ok...I might be Screwed...Advice Needed

[LongShot]

Ok...heres the deal. I am 33 and there is a 19 year old who moved in next to me a week after I moved in. Well...after about 3 months now of not really talking to her...this past week has been a flurry of timing and hanging out with her outside the apartment. Well...about 15 minutes ago...I got done banging her.

I know what I was thinking with and thinking about..nothing more. After moving up here and getting no play since I have been here...yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. :boner: :bitchsla:

My problem is that I think she is going to take it as I want more. Not the case though. Did I mention she lives right next to me...one wall away!!!
I think I just stepped in it. :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:

Now, my plan is to talk with her and tell her....somewhat the truth. I dont have time for a full blown relationship (sort of true due to amount of time at work). I am not looking for a Relationship but more friends to hang out with up here (not true) Last night I was overcummed by the need of not getting any for a while (fully true). I would like to be more of a friend so I can get to really know her and see if we can be more later (You answer true or false for me). You live right next to me and that can complicate things if we get together and break up badly (So friggin true).


My question to you is.... does this sound like a good plan. Anything I should add or take out. Give me some hints, tips or tricks. :headache:
I just want to live in peace and be able to go on about my life...ummm but not with her.

[J.C.]

lets see pics of her

[LongShot]

lets see pics of her

I will work on that....lol. Whats Up JC... hows things with the PBR crew?

[danny]

tell her lets remain friend with benifits.

[Miss Chievous]

Don't jump to the conclusion she will want a relationship with you. I am 19 also and had sex with an older guy (not 33, but high 20s) and did not want a relationship at all. Just because we are young, DON'T automatically assume we want a relationship just because we had sex.

You shouldn't have had sex with her in the first place if you thought this was going to happen. I understand you have hormones, but think about it for a second before you go hump away.

As for the conversation, DO NOT TELL HER you were, as you say "Last night I was overcummed by the need of not getting any for a while" that will make her feel like the biggest whore alive and that all she was, was a mercy fuck. BAD IDEA. That will cause her to go psycho on your ass and will make you look like the biggest dick alive.

Explain to her you are not ready for a relationship, you don't need to give her any specifics, but if she asks, use the work excuse. Don't feel like you have to let her off easy because she's younger to you, that will make her feel inferior.

Sorry if this sounds kinda harsh but its my 2 cents...

[nags]

We need some titty pics for sure

[Robbie]

if u like her....run with it...if u dont tell her.
however...she is pretty yung....
funny part...im in ur shoes also but she is almost 22...and im ur age range.
but this girl is really cool...but far from my age....
funny part (kinda sick) u where a senior in high school when she was in kindergarden...
LMAO....

[LongShot]

You shouldn't have had sex with her in the first place if you thought this was going to happen. I understand you have hormones, but think about it for a second before you go hump away.



Sorry if this sounds kinda harsh but its my 2 cents...

Thats the whole thing, If I could have thoght friggin straight...and not with Junior, I think I would have passed...but its a done deal now, so I got to do something.

Its not harsh, I need to hear this stuff.

Nags, I dunno...might try just for you Bro.

Robbie...that is a sick thought...lmao.

[Robbie]

Sorry if this sounds kinda harsh but its my 2 cents...

actually...sounds like u where screwed over by an older dude...
i can pretty much read right thru you....
if u look at ur 1st and 2nd paragraF....u might understand what i am saying. :flamed:

[Robbie]

Robbie...that is a sick thought...lmao.

is she hot or what dude? lets get some details....
reason why i said that sick comment...was that was what this girl im seeing said to me while i was trying to get my grove on...hahahaa...she was fuking with me...i thought it was funny, but it worked as far as me getting off her....she just laughs about it. "when u where a sennior, i was in 5th grade"
too funny...but so wrong...

[Miss Chievous]

Thats the whole thing, If I could have thoght friggin straight...and not with Junior, I think I would have passed...but its a done deal now, so I got to do something.

Its not harsh, I need to hear this stuff.


I understand that completely. You get caught up in the heat of the moment and don't think reasonably, it happens to us all. Girls can think with their hormones too.

Just PLEASE stay away from telling her you were overcome with emotions from not getting any action in a while. That is the worst possible thing you could say to her... it will crush her.

[Miss Chievous]

actually...sounds like u where screwed over by an older dude...
i can pretty much read right thru you....
if u look at ur 1st and 2nd paragraF....u might understand what i am saying. :flamed:


Well, If you wanna know, I didn't get screwed over, but it ended badly. The guy turned psycho, asking me to "save myself" for him and all this other crap. He wouldn't stop calling.... It was just a bad situation.

[LongShot]

is she hot or what dude? lets get some details....
reason why i said that sick comment...was that was what this girl im seeing said to me while i was trying to get my grove on...hahahaa...she was fuking with me...i thought it was funny, but it worked as far as me getting off her....she just laughs about it. "when u where a sennior, i was in 5th grade"
too funny...but so wrong...

I would not say hottie but Very cute. Nice young average size...not a skinny model size...body. Brunette. Shaved. Around 5' 5".
She is from a very small town...smaller than Bristol and is just not ....how can I say this...educated in life yet. I know by all us Adults (30 and up) she is hanging out with here and chatting with. I am sure I can seperate Sex and *cough* love *cough* but I dont know if she can. She is a nice girl and I dont want to hurt her feelings unless I have to. Who knows..it may work out if we do hook up...but I just dont feel that way as of yet. By the way things are thses days...I am old enuff to be her dad....lmao.

[Robbie]

I understand that completely. You get caught up in the heat of the moment and don't think reasonably, it happens to us all. Girls can think with their hormones too.

bullshit...he knew what he was doing...we dont "get caught up in the heat of the moment" where always in the moment....he wanted to bang her since day one...everytime he saw her he wanted some (even more obvious, is cuz he aint had none in a long time...aint those points, just about any ho will do)

Just PLEASE stay away from telling her you were overcome with emotions from not getting any action in a while. That is the worst possible thing you could say to her... it will crush her

NO man on the face of this earth would say something like that. i dont even think it was his plans...i dont even want to tell u what i think his plans are....

[LongShot]

The Scene from Austin Powers keeps comes to mind. After Dr. Evil banged the Frau. "It got weird didn't it"

[Robbie]

I would not say hottie but Very cute. Nice young average size...not a skinny model size...body. Brunette. Shaved. Around 5' 5".
She is from a very small town...smaller than Bristol and is just not ....how can I say this...educated in life yet. I know by all us Adults (30 and up) she is hanging out with here and chatting with. I am sure I can seperate Sex and *cough* love *cough* but I dont know if she can. She is a nice girl and I dont want to hurt her feelings unless I have to. Who knows..it may work out if we do hook up...but I just dont feel that way as of yet. By the way things are thses days...I am old enuff to be her dad....lmao.


you got AIM...if so hit me up.... "R6bbie"
to much shit gets back to me on message boards...and taken the wrong way.
i got some good stories for u...

[Miss Chievous]

The Scene from Austin Powers keeps comes to mind. After Dr. Evil banged the Frau. "It got weird didn't it"
sex complicates things... and yea, that seen makes sense here! :eyepop:

[LongShot]

you got AIM...if so hit me up.... "R6bbie"
to much shit gets back to me on message boards...and taken the wrong way.
i got some good stories for u...

No AIM here. I think I am going to set the seed with a joke about the Kindergarten thing though. Thanks for that one.

[Robbie]

well...good luck...and get us some pics and well go from there...
does she have her own place....if not, see what her mom is up to...i bet she is closer in age....LOL...j/k

have fun...

[LongShot]

does she have her own place....
have fun...

I did mention she is in the Apartment right next to me...lol. If she did not live here..to be honest... I would not worry about it. But she is on the other side of the wall to my left. Dating has picked up for me a little and now this could hamper things if I wanted to chill with someone here and watch a movie. Guess I need to go back to their place if needed until I can get a better read on things with her.
I was not planning on this. She came over to my place after she got here from work. She started picking on me. I picked back. She started play fighting...then the Imortal words from Seinfeld "Yadda Yadda Yadda".

Now that I think about it more...maybe we both just wanted some at the time. But I am not ruling out she may think I want more, as of yet. :dance:

[MikeM]

Get some pics man

[TongWoo]

Screw her brains out.

[BeckyB]

wear a condom

[TongWoo]

wear a condom
She's 19 from a town with a population of 3. Dude, raw dog and spackle the grill. She deserves it. :hitler:

[BeckyB]

She's 19 from a town with a population of 3. Dude, raw dog and spackle the grill. She deserves it. :hitler:
yeah until you get her knocked up and then he'll really be screwed :boggled:

[TongWoo]

yeah until you get her knocked up and then he'll really be screwed :boggled:
We didn't have these "FANCY" birth control methods that you kids have nowadays....

Like pullin out....



Der.

[BeckyB]

We didn't have these "FANCY" birth control methods that you kids have nowadays....

Like pullin out....



Der.
doesn't always work :banghead:

[TongWoo]

doesn't always work :banghead:
I know... I know...

[warbuk]

i don't see what the big deal is :Hum:
you banged her so what. did u ever think that she banged you too :shy: . but when i hook up like that i'll just let'em know that i just wanna have some fun. maybe u could tell her that. everybody likes to have fun :hitler:

[LongShot]

She's 19 from a town with a population of 3. Dude, raw dog and spackle the grill. She deserves it. :hitler:

Took me 3 minutes to recover from looking at this one :rotfl:

Ok Hers what happened today when I got home. I got out the car and was outside with the neighbors and she came downstairs. She did nothing out of the ordinary and followed me back up. When we were out of sight...she gave me a little kiss and just acted normal. So I guess things are cool. Just got to play it by ear for now.
Tired from last night so this old man needs sleep. I am not gonna worry about it till something like wanting to know where I am going and stuff like that shows up, if it does.

Looking at the all the responses, this has definatley been a Interesting Thread....lol.

[DetroitStyle]

I say... if she is going to have the feelings, then they've already started. So if you pull away now, it's gonna hurt just as much as pulling away in two weeks. So you mights as well get your schwerve on for a few more weeks and get it out of your system.

[horace611]

1st...get some pics we need to know what she looks like.

2nd...get some breast shoots...scratch that...full nudes.

3rd... tell the girl the truth so she knows where you are comin' from.

4th...if that doesn't work ask for some weird sex acts and maybe she will be scared into leaving you alone...then again maybe that will backfire and she will turn out to be a freak that likes it. Fuck man you might be screwed if she turns out to be psycho.

next time :wackit:

good luck man

[myyellowschwinn]

hmm well i say go fuck her again,..but this time pull a hudini on her or donkey punch or something fucked up so she thinks you are da freak,,next thing you know she will be giving you the whole .." i think we need to be friends speech" and then you can go back to banging other random bitches. life restored.

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[LongShot]

Shit..this thing has gone on over here.... lol

http://www.stuntlife.org/boards/viewtopic.php?t=1105

It seems to be cool now but boy was it close.

[LRM95TransAm]

I had about the opposite situation ur in. I am 22 and when i moved into my complex about a year ago i noticed my neighbor was quite attractive. Never really talked to her but saw her on her balcony all the time. One day ran into her in the hallway, introduced ourselves... i thought she was maybe 24... she was 32... and freakin hotttt as shit. well had a lil housewarming party for 2, a bottle of wine and next thing ya kno it was game on. But being she had been divorced 3 times now, she didnt want a relationship and that was str8 with me. The good times lasted a few months then she started getting attached and that was it, gone. I wouldnt look into it too far. casual contact and phone calls here and there. If she finds someone else o well, and vice versa. The best part about it... u can always just knock on the neighbors door... worst part... she can see everyone and anyone u bring home, lol

[AliKatR6]

learned from a bad experience in college....don't fuck the neighbors! i'll drink and party with mine all night but never again will i hook up with one.

[forcefedfreak]

cradle robber! that's all i'm going to say...

[jd450]

She's 19 from a town with a population of 3. Dude, raw dog and spackle the grill. She deserves it. :hitler:
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