Girls, Ladies, Women, correct me if I am wrong. Just an opinion if possible.

[bikerboy]

Again, this is a mere study of the situations and the phsycological feelings felmales go through before they reach that "point"

So in other words, this by no means is set in stone, but it from what I understand is fairly correct. By both females and males. Sometimes when you have ALOT of thoughts like I do all the time pumping through your head, I can be wrong or I can be right or at least on the right track. So I like to get all sides.

So I need your opinion ladies and frankly gentlemen. FIll me in if this is pretty accurate.

Also, THIS IS MEANT FOR THE MAJORITY, not for the exceptions to the rule as you may be an exception.

OK, here it is....


well, I guess the female and pretty boy thing is not as accurate as it seems or what I thought. If most chicks do not on the motorcycle board why is it that MOST chicks flock to the guy who gets his nails done (manicures, and such) where the "pretty little outfit, hair is perfect everytime, is in the mirror waaay too much, etc. Why do chicks ALWAYS go for this type of human? It never fails. They could be the dumbest thing on the earth but if they are "pretty", chicks ALWAYS go for them. Why? Is it the sense that b/c he is "pretty and cute", he'll be the prince in shining armor that will have a good job even though he is stupid and a fuk up?

Like, ""I have or will have "pretty kids" so that's all I need?""

I don't get the thought process.

From what I gather and others have agreed with is women go in stages as such.

1. 3-7yrs old - everyone is equal.

2. 8-13yrs old - boys are yucky

3. 9-14yrs old - insterested and begin talking about boys

4. 15-18yrs old - getting serious about boys and now speaking of men and the attractions thereof, but moreso on the rougher guy.

5. 19-25yrs old - they on average tend to like the hardcore, roughneck, gangster (for some) for others, they like what is called the "wanna-be hardcore gangster (the guys who think and act like a hard core guy but is really a suberbia wanna be punk)", and so on

6. 26-30yrs old - hormones start kicking in HARD core. They now think more liek women. They are out of the girly stage, they have now passed being a lady. They are NOW entering womanhood. In womanhood they become smarter in their choices. Women ALWAYS rag on how stupid men are but at this stage learn to realize how foolish they have been and how they behaved and the poor choices in men they have participated in. They, some of them, realize its not that men are bad, its how stupid they have been in picking a man that can and will support them in the way they envision.

Sometimes wishing and hoping things are due to you b./c you you/she is a female is VERY wrong and the parents filled their daughters up with false hopes. You see, NOW they are beginnig to actually see the real world and not in fictitious land of princesses and the prince to rescue them out of their slumber.

This is real life. No more games. At this stage they realize what they have done or are doing. Now its what man will take me that ISN'T hard core, gangsta, wanna be ganbsger, fake, etc. They "want" a REAL man but have to decide if they are going to be ladies again and not move forwards into womanhood. If they choose to stay like a lady, then add the 1/2 decade before they use the new gained knowledge at the age of 35. At this point they look for a MAN and not a guy. One who pays his bills, plans, cares for her as she can get a free ride if the right guy is chosen, etc. Women, at this age, who choose "hard-bodies" males, full of hormones pumping out of their eyes, and everywhere else are still in the stage that they should be out of already.

Males just like females go through the stages boy, guy, then followed by a man. But men are more direct and don't play as many mind games with themselves. They KNOW if they are going to be serious, settle down, or plan to get married. No games. No la-da-da-da fairytale stuff.

30-25 and up yrs old - now its nitty gritty time. Now she is a full fledged woman without a doubt. She was before but never thought or realized it due to being fake, living lies with makeup, hair-do's, "young" clothing, lying about age, etc. She knows what direction she is heading and knows if she continues what she is doing, things will get better, things will stay the same, or things will get as bad as living with and as a drug addict, etc and the chances at that point of coming out are VERY slim. Where ever you are at at this time, she KNOWS that is most likely where she'll be in 30yrs before she is called upon the death bed if it doesn't reach her first..

Damn I should be an author of a book. I write enough, and think way too hard sometimes. I LOVE to analyze and figure out what people think and why. Its how I tick.

So do you agree, disagree, or would like to add comments. I want to know what your take on this is...

[BeckyB]

this is how i see it....guys do it twice as much as girls do. they'd rather have a hot girl who is shallow, stupid and fake than a not so attractive girl who can hold a convo....
but to your age group thing...i agree...my ex husband was attractive, but far from a pretty boy...he was the 'tough, cool' guy everyone from where i went to school knew. i'm 24, almost 25 now, and i have two kids, i've already been married, so i don't really think the way your list says....but if i wasn't in my situation i probaly would. i'm pretty much attracted to any guy who likes my kids first off...i have to be somewhat attracted to him and he has to have a good personality and have things going for him...nothing else really matters.

[Miss Chievous]

Its all about the process of growing up. When your a teenager and young adult, you want to have fun before you get serious, so you probably go for the "hardcore" guys. For some its rebellion, for others, its just part of the dating game. How can you know if you don't like a type of person if you never give them a shot?

Ideally, you want a guy who is a "real" man. But don't interpret "real" as meaning "pretty." Being a "real" man is someone who is capable of paying his own bills, treating a woman with respect, and someone who wants a family. Characteristics of being "real" have nothing to do with phsyical apperances (sp?).

It all depends on how you grew up and what your parents were like. I grew up with 2 extremely loving parents who have been married for 29 years. In my life, I can only remember my parents fighting twice. So this has shaped my views on what a "real" man is. To me, my father is an ideal "real" man. He treats my mother with respect, is financially responsible, and always puts his family first.

Hopefully this helps you. There is no guideline for what a "real" man is, it varies person to person.

[LongShot]

These days it seems like no one knows what they really want (guys or gals). Look at how many marrages end up in Divorce. Where people Married for life back in the days. Now someone says they have been married (or together with someone) for 25 year so far.....people look at them like "why". Maybe T.V. is to blame for all those listed stages. Who knows.

I know what I want for life....but the question is, will i ever find it? Been down that road once...but apparently she didnt find what she wanted. I am not gonna stop looking and I am not gonna stop taking chances either.

P.S. I am not calling this a Guys point of view.....just my view.

:sheephum:

[bikerboy]

lol,

I am thinking toooooo damn hard on this. You ever get that feeling of getting "bored" from meeting the same ol' chicks? You know, its pretty routine. And after a while it get a little old. Don't get me wrong, a little poo nanny is always great but its normally at a cost. She's either waaay to freaky, staker like, a chick who likes the stick and wants to marry you even though you both agree on it being a mutual "freidns with benefits" type deal, etc.

If you could find 1, that would be just what you wanted, mentally and physically satisfying, then at the same time you could get ass whenever you want b/c its always in your face, could do shit together without worrying about the freak x-boyfriend, and so on that'd be what I am after but seemingly there are tooo many chicks that don't want to be anything but whoochies even though they are lying and say they are not the "this or that" type when once you get them back, you KNOW what type of chick she is.

I have one chick that was hella cool and had no probs. EXCEPT, one night I was busting my thang and then up walked in the x-boyfriend. HE explained how he is a gang member and he's going to explain to a "player" that "your blood is going to spill tonight " then proceeded to say she's a whore and all that. I told him, you broke up with her, how can you be mad? But I soon figured out he wasn't rational.

I made a post on this a while back. Everyone talked all that shit saying" I'd kick his ass....I'd slam him... I'd run over him" and all that stupid shit. The dude is NOT stable. I like living. Her stuff isn't worth my life. Maybe them but not me.

I read a new police report about 1mo ago and this guy hit her in the face with a brick, used a rope to strangle her, broke a few of her teeth out, charged with almost running a police officer down while trying to escape the house they lived in, etc... The guy is not and was not stabvle. He's fuckin nuts. So yea, go fight this guy and have his little firends start shit and follow you around in shit as you both live in the same neighborhood. That's not smart.

Its shit like this. The chicks are so stupid sometimes, they stay with a guy who beats them up, you hear the sotries and figure she should be fine with you and then the next thing you know your being staked by some loser and your not even with her anymore.

Its like some women are sooo stupid that they see signs, OVER AND OVER from shoved, to slapped, to this and that when she met him and he never did it. But she ALWAYS thinks she can change him which is NEVER true and they get beat up worse but then eventually they are too afraid to leave, and so on and so forth.

Its the way alot of them think and its weird. That's like if I was really small, say 120lbs and then some woman started to pound on me for no reason and she weighed more than double my wieght, FUK THAT. I am gone. That is too crazy. But maybe some of us have common sense.

Men are stupid as they say. But men are simple. Be good, do what they want and they do what you want, more times than not, and then don't care.

Women need to be told "Wow, honey, you did sooo good. Thank you soooo much for the dinner, and you look soooo pretty this morning and I love you and blah blah balh." Ask any man how he'd feel if a chick didn't say she loved him everyday, or tell him how nice he look sin his clothes, etc. I have asked this same question to dudes at a gas station that would come in. I told the clerk ( a pretty cute chick) that dudes don't care. She didn't believe me. Well, EVERY single dude said "he could care less, or nothing, or as long as she does physical things he's cool. "

I talked to one guy and he was like "man, I have to completment her on EVERYTHING or else szhe starts to get mad or act like a b-tch but when I fix the toilet, the fence, her car, etc, I don't get shit. Its like I am supposed to do this and she's not to do anything on her own without all the "fasad"...


That is all I am saying. A normal chick that isn't overly needy for products that makes them think they are better looking than what they are (people aren't blind they can see what you look like), a chick who isn't mental, a chick who is not a whore that once you are commite (she gets bored and runs off with the new stick b/c he "loves" her when its her ass he's after and she is too dumbo to realize this), and so on.

For you guys and gals who are married. You KNOW its never equal. The male usually does more in terms of going out of his way to make things work. Right? All dudes know this or are some of you as guys the opposite and that is why chicks hate dudes and like women so much or??? LIke if you are arguing and you KNOW your right and so does she but she is just flappin the mouth piece to not look stupid, men usually end it and let it go. Women normally don't. If its a thing of pride, men stay hard but if its over little trivial sh-t, like not opening her car door first after you've been together for 8mo and she gets pissy over that. Trivial to him, not to her. They like to bicker for no reason alot of times. Just to feel like daddy fed them in their ears as a child "You deserve everything from a man. He should worship the ground you walk on and be there for whatever you want or need him for and even if you don't want or need anythign...."


Men don't need sh !t. Food, sex, and to show that you care for them. Thats IT. And naturally, they'll go out of their way for you. What's so confusing. UNless you (ladies) go for super hottie guys that have nothing to offer except looks or after ugly joe shmoe for his money. Then they learn to love him based off of his money...




If your married, how and where did you find her or for the ladies, him. If you are not, why? Be it a divorce, etc. What caused the divorce if you don't mind. You don't have to give a whole life sotry or intimate details. Just She cheated on me or I couldn't deal with the violnce, etc.